Saturday 18 July 2015

How to train our children towards society ??


             This post is sincerely  dedicated to all parents. Why every student is in a dilemma stage they are not perfect in anything you may think that mind maturity may be a criteria, but it is not the exact guess. I struggle a lot but never give up. One of my friend committed suicide because of his misbehaviour and some addictions.

       What exactly the reason why students are committing suicides. What is their fault exactly????

       The reason behind this I guess from my whole life no student in this world is self-satisfied with available resources. Yes, that's the reason even you may come through some of these incidents in your life.

Student usually says.....
  • My educational institution is not performing well other educational institutions are good.
  • Our faculty is not up to the mark so we can't perform well.
  • 1% increase in my overall OGP helps me.
  • Boring towards exams and classes we need something for upgrading.
  • Cannot concentrate on studies I can't control myself.
  • Attractions and distractions......... no end for this list.
       From childhood onwards we need sufficient training for our children. Parents are the best trainers for children. Start training them gift them some books but not the scrap from the market. Who are willing to give a book as a gift it is worthy when you select a book which is a perfect book for them. Review on that book should be written on the first page of the book then gift them to your children. They should feel that my parents read this and important concepts have been reviewed. Discuss with your children about the characters and how to improve it.

      No successful person in this world is successful in one day keep that in mind. Don't force your children to do this and that maintain a character before them. Education is important I agree, but children should know about society first.

      Noble laureate Rabindranath Tagore didn't go to a school you know that. Give valuable suggestions to your children If he likes cricket gift him some great books like autobiography of Sachin Tendulkar. Every field has its own pioneer characters just explore the wide angle of their life explain it to your children.

      Students should trained to overcome all obstacles in their life. They should satisfy with their output and input from childhood onwards they should know that.

      Do not show a  film actor or actress as a role model to them. Be aware that for money they are doing  movies just for an entertainment purpose. Movies character end in that screen only they are not real. Showing these heroes as a role models is not right. There are some heroes really work for society appreciate their work.

    Thousands of NGO are there in this World who are serving poor they are the real heroes appreciate their work. Parents are responsible for their children career. Matured mind is not a criteria where everyone says that my son/daughter is so small I will follow it when the time comes. No that's not right even small kids can make miracles when you train them exactly.

     Who say the cigarette is a fashion go to a government hospital in your city spend 1 full day there in a pulmonary ward you will know the value of your lungs. Crores and crores of people are addicted to it showing a small lines saying it will cause cancer when consumed is not right. All addictions in this society will attract our children be careful.

    Be a part of your children career encourage them please I request you to change yourself first then try to change their mindset.

                     Be the change you want to see in others

                                                                                                Mahatma Gandhi

       Without sufficient knowledge about our society so many students are committing suicides because they can't overcome obstacles, pressures and. attractions. Train your children they should be a role model to our society. Think big and act big.
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